February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month (TDVAM), a time dedicated to educating young people about healthy relationships and recognizing the signs of dating abuse. At Child Saving Institute (CSI), we believe that raising awareness, offering prevention strategies and providing support are critical steps in protecting teens from dating violence.
Understanding the Scope of Teen Dating Violence
The reality of dating abuse among teens is alarming, and the numbers tell a compelling story:
- 66.8% of Nebraskans experience their first victimization before the age of 30, with adolescence being the peak time for initial experiences of sexual and intimate partner violence.
- By the age of 17, many young women in Nebraska have already experienced rape through force or coercion.
- Nearly half (46.8%) of Nebraska women and 39.2% of men experience physical violence by an intimate partner at some point in their lives.
- Psychological aggression is widespread, with 67.7% of Nebraska women and 58.9% of men reporting experiences of public humiliation, tracking, financial control, or threats.
- Women in Nebraska are three times more likely than men to experience ongoing sexual violence in their lifetime.
Recognizing the Warning Signs of Teen Dating Violence
Dating abuse can take many forms, including physical, emotional, verbal, digital and sexual abuse. Common red flags include:
- Isolation from friends and family
- Controlling behavior, such as tracking whereabouts or monitoring phone use
- Pressuring for sex or intimacy
- Insulting or humiliating a partner in public or private
- Making threats of harm if the relationship ends
Understanding these warning signs can help teens, parents and educators identify unhealthy relationships early and take action.
The Importance of Prevention & Education
Research shows that early intervention is key to breaking the cycle of abuse. Since dating violence peaks between the ages of 15-18, it is crucial to introduce education about boundaries, consent and healthy relationships before adolescence.
By fostering open communication and empowering teens with knowledge, we can create a culture where young people recognize red flags, seek support and build respectful and safe relationships.
We’re Here to Help
At CSI, we provide vital resources to help teens and families navigate and heal from dating violence:
- Family Empowerment Program: Offers free empowerment groups and one-on-one case management for survivors of domestic violence and their children, providing tools to heal and rebuild safe, stable lives.
- Pediatric & Adolescent Therapy: Specialized therapy services to help youth process trauma, build self-confidence and develop healthy relationship patterns.
Take Action
If you or someone you know is experiencing teen dating violence, help is available. CSI is here to provide resources and support to ensure the safety and well-being of youth in our community.
Visit childsaving.org to learn more about our programs, access support and join the movement to prevent teen dating violence.
By raising awareness and offering support, we can work together to build a future where every teen experiences relationships rooted in respect, trust and safety.
